What makes us feel as though we shouldn’t have confidence? Why do we allow ourselves to not have confidence in our abilities.

With my husband in medical school and being across the country from my family, I have struggled with my confidence and what I wanted out of life. My husband either at school or studying, and our families live across the country. While I work full time, my evenings and weekends can get a little lonely.

I hit a moment this past Christmas where I realized that I would have to cultivate the confidence within myself if I was going to become the woman I want to be. As my amazing husband is focusing on being the best doctor and surgeon he can be, I want to also be able to focus on growing and becoming the best version of myself that I can be. That’s why I will be focusing on me! (just a little)

FOCUSING ON ME! Instead of focusing on things I can’t change, like going home to see my family and friends, and not being able to spend as much time as I would like with my husband, I realized that I must find confidence to do the things that I enjoy. So I will be working on developing my fashion sense and cooking skills. I absolutely love shoes and clothes and discovering new items! I have also found a love of cooking and baking, and am so excited to show you all what I am cooking up. So, my goal going forward, is to focus on the things that I enjoy, the things that make me happy. That being said, I will be posting the things I am doing, working on and enjoy, and how they bring the confidence I struggle with!

Love you all and I hope you enjoy!


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